There are signs that parents and teachers should be aware of to determine whether their child is a target of a school bully. Sudden and uncharacteristic changes in behavior can indicate a child is being harassed or victimized. If there is a suspicion that something is going on, bullying may be a possibility that needs investigation. Keep in mind these warning signs might also be indicative of other problems or issues in a child’s life that are occurring in school or at home.
Specific behaviors include:
- Declining grades
- Frequent complaints of illness
- Becoming withdrawn or depressed
- Showing unexplained bruises, or damage to clothes
- Beginning to bully others
- Becoming aggressive, irritable or quick tempered
- Having few or no friends
- Making excuses for not wanting to go to school
- Nightmares or trouble sleeping
- Acting out in the classroom
- Talks about dropping out or changing schools
- Carries items to protect oneself
- Talks about or attempts suicide
